1. "Hasad" or "jealousy" is something that is kind of natural, anyone can develop a feeling of jealousy from the other person, for indeed, various reasons!! To stop yourself from this feeling of jealousy try to praise that person behind his back and even infront of him, and always say "allahumma barik"Read more

    “Hasad” or “jealousy” is something that is kind of natural, anyone can develop a feeling of jealousy from the other person, for indeed, various reasons!! To stop yourself from this feeling of jealousy try to praise that person behind his back and even infront of him, and always say “allahumma barik” or “mashallah”. Jealousy usually developes  when you look at something a person has, while you don’t!! At that moment, when you feel that sense of  jealousy!! Look at the various things you have!! The smallest of the small things! And try to thank allah for every thing.. and believe me, when you’ll move a sight upon every cell you have, every tissue, every organ..No! You’ll be confused, but would feel that you can never actually be thankful towards every single thing you have. And that moment the sense of envy would totally dissappear!!

    Another thing, one can do is, when you look upon the things other person has, while you dont, try to look at the people who dont either have the things, you do!! That way the sense of envy can be eradicated partially!! Rest,  trying your best to be happy in the happiness of others maybe the best thing one could do!!

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  2. After witnessing the circumstances experienced by the people of gaza, Palestine. We as individuals from a separate homeland cannot effectively protest agains the government, but all we can do is, boycott their products, which indeed has more or less, impact upon their economy, national pride, carryiRead more

    After witnessing the circumstances experienced by the people of gaza, Palestine. We as individuals from a separate homeland cannot effectively protest agains the government, but all we can do is, boycott their products, which indeed has more or less, impact upon their economy, national pride, carrying out of operational capabilities by the army, due to lack of equipments, logistics, training and funds. Politically the morale of the leaders as well as masses of the nation goes down as they feel as a sense of isolation from the rest of the countries. (I.e. due to the bycott). And how can our own conscience allow us to utilize the products of the nation, whose hands are  stained with the blood of innocent children and people of gaza? (genocide). Infact fatwa has been issued by various religious scholars against the use of Israeli products! All in all, boycotting Israeli products is going to give a severe blow to their economy!! And once the economy is shattered, the foundations of the so called “leaders” are automatically shaken by their own masses!

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  3. Getting control over the nafs is basically, making your nafs listen to you. Making it be obedient to you. And this can be done when you do not work upon your desires. It means, our nafs always wants comfort and pleasure, and thus makes us do the things which give the worldly or temporary pleasure, sRead more

    Getting control over the nafs is basically, making your nafs listen to you. Making it be obedient to you. And this can be done when you do not work upon your desires. It means, our nafs always wants comfort and pleasure, and thus makes us do the things which give the worldly or temporary pleasure, so to keep yourself out of that comfort zone and do exactly opposite to what your nafs wants, helps alot in gaining control over nafs… Like if you offer the isha prayer and you have a sudden thought of not offering the extra 2 rakats as they’re not mandatory! You must seize your mind out of that thought and breaking all the shackles of pleasing fantasies that your nafs has created, say, that now i’ll  offer  four rakkat prayers!! two rakat nafl and two rakkat of namaz e shukur as well.. this way your nafs can be under your control mostly!!

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  4. Breaks are important in order to maintain the slope while studying. But using highly distractive things like social media during breaks can actually make a 5 minute break turn to a 5 hour one. So during the time we're arround the books i.e. studying, i prefer not to use the phone at all.. even in thRead more

    Breaks are important in order to maintain the slope while studying. But using highly distractive things like social media during breaks can actually make a 5 minute break turn to a 5 hour one. So during the time we’re arround the books i.e. studying, i prefer not to use the phone at all.. even in the breaks too.. There are nany other options we can do during the break time, like we can move outside for a while (keeping the check on the clock, making it Clear to one self that 12:30 means 12:30 only. Not a minute less, not a minute more) and observe the nature!! It gives alot of positivity and freshness. And keeping oneself enthusiastic during studying makes the subconscious distractions the least. This enthusiasm can be induced in oneself by keeping yourself hydrated, whenever you feel like i’ve started to become lazy, wash your face, drink water, and remain focused. These things would help you to stay enthusiastic and most of the times may cause the subconscious distractions fade!!

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  5. As a student, managing time is somewhat really important. The best time management is commitment to yourself. That i have set a goal today, you need to give a challenge to yourself, that no matter what happens, i will have to complete it today!!  And once the consistency and focus is all set, the tiRead more

    As a student, managing time is somewhat really important. The best time management is commitment to yourself. That i have set a goal today, you need to give a challenge to yourself, that no matter what happens, i will have to complete it today!!  And once the consistency and focus is all set, the time management happens all by itself. Also as students trying to keep the schedule as tight as possible, makes it even better for us to deal the  future trifle’s.  Also, keeping the mental and physical health active is equally important for a student to keep up the enthusiasm in the education. All in all  making a commitment with oneself, that today’s work wont be left for tomorrow, helps alot in completing goals and overcoming lethargicity as students, and akso helps in the time and schedule management by itself

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  6. There are actually many ways. My personal opinion in this regard is, perform wudhu, with cold water, which would help you calm down a bit.  And its better to pray and talk your heart out to Almighty!! Cry hard and let everything out yourself, and believe me, the peace you're heart experiences afterRead more

    There are actually many ways. My personal opinion in this regard is, perform wudhu, with cold water, which would help you calm down a bit.  And its better to pray and talk your heart out to Almighty!! Cry hard and let everything out yourself, and believe me, the peace you’re heart experiences after that is justt unexpressible!!

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  7. By following the seerat of ahlulbayt!! The way they spent their lives, by tracing their footsteps. By thinking "agar mai ye kaam karu tou kya mere nabi saw khush honge?" And by always trying to remain consistent upon their path, despite many distractions.

    By following the seerat of ahlulbayt!! The way they spent their lives, by tracing their footsteps. By thinking “agar mai ye kaam karu tou kya mere nabi saw khush honge?” And by always trying to remain consistent upon their path, despite many distractions.

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  8. In Islam, there is a strong emphasis on respecting and caring for one's in-laws, including the daughter-in-law taking care of her in-laws. But it is not mandatory in islaam for them to actually perform all the chores or stuffs she doesn'twant to, but it is often encouraged as a way to uphold familyRead more

    In Islam, there is a strong emphasis on respecting and caring for one’s in-laws, including the daughter-in-law taking care of her in-laws. But it is not mandatory in islaam for them to actually perform all the chores or stuffs she doesn’twant to, but it is often encouraged as a way to uphold family values and promote harmony within the family unit. The concept of kindness and respect towards family members, including in-laws, is highly valued in Islamic teachings.

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